Wednesday, February 10, 2010

The things we like to do

When asked to look at and rank the things we like to do, how often we do them, and what gets in the way it was a real eye opener. Not only do we not do enough of the things we like in our personal time, usually because of work, I found that in work related tasks we don't get around to doing the real leadership and growth activities because of administrivia. Balance is the key word in both venues, and just how to find that balance is vital to longevity and happiness both at home and at work.

I am a person who runs by a schedule. What do the kids have, what time will supper need to be made etc., so I am thinking that my tool to fit the enjoyable things at work and at home is the plain out schedule them it. My VP at work said he found it necessary to put things in the calendar to hold himself to it or else there will always be something that comes up to take you away from it. I am going to try that method at home for now, and later at work and try to let anything (unless it is an emergency) interfere with that schedule.

I guess in a round about way this relates back to planning as well and being sure that what we set out to accomplish is important enough from the beginning to enough people, that nothing will come up that seems more of priority throughout the year and get in the way of attainment.

Curious to hear what Larry has to say.

krista

2 comments:

  1. I am also a planner, scheduler, list maker. My time is largely determined by the other people in my house. What is daughter doing, what is son and billet doing, when do they need pregame meal and how am I going to get it all done? I am a multitasker which (I tell my self) opens up more time for things I want to do and enjoy doing. For now though, I enjoy my job, I enjoy my students, so I am filling my time with things I enjoy doing to a certain extent. Semester has just change and I absolutely have the best class I have ever experienced, I am already dreading losing them in June.

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  2. Hey Krista,

    Planning for hobbies is something I really should try to do. I think it helps revitalize our inner youth and can help accomplish other goals in life. You are right when you say that it is a balancing act; to be effective in all areas in life, it requires balance. To be happy is to satisfy that inner child and do something for you...then the best mom, wife, teacher, and friend will emerge.

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